Thursday, July 3, 2008
Don't judge me. . .
Okay, I'm nervous....we meet them in 58 minutes. Bobby is getting his hair cut right now.....I usually calm down after a beer........don't look down on me....I'm going to drink one before we go....just one though! The more I think about it...the funnier it sounds....my mom carried my sister and I a week past her due date....the night her water broke.....my dad took her to dinner....what did she have............steak and a beer.....
Thursday, July 3, 2008
Our First Meeting
We had our first meeting with the boys today and I don't think it could have gone any better! The boys were told before we had arrived. John was a little shocked that his own 3rd grade teacher was adopting him. Anthony was just happy that we had a pool!
We went to McDonald's for lunch and it seemed that John got a little tearie-eyed as we were sitting there as a family. Anthony was a little shy but soon that broke away to show a very polite loving brother.
We went to Wal-Mart afterwards because John wanted to buy some kind of gaming cards and he bought his brother a set that he wanted.
Then we headed to the Ft. Worth Zoo. We couldn't even make it all the way through the zoo, the boys were so interested in gaining more information about all the animals that they saw. The boys are so smart. . . and that's not just because I'll be their "mom". I just can't tell you how much fun we had trying to get to know each other.
We get to pick up the boys tomorrow (Anthony wanted us to pick him up 5 minutes after he would be dropped off at his babysitters house). We were supposed to just pick up Anthony from his babysitters house, but after talking to his foster mom, we're going to save her some money and just pick him up at 6:45am....I bet Anthony is excited! They got to see pictures of their rooms and they think their names on the walls are "awesome." Since we know so much about John already, we are going to take Anthony out to breakfast so we can have some one-on-one time...I think he was a little hurt because we were telling John about all the things we did for him before we could tell him we were adopting him. After we take Anthony out for breakfast we will pick up John and then we are going shopping for fishing equipment then making our way to Granbury. We're going to buy a bunch of fireworks!
We read the psych evals on the boys yesterday. . .Anthony reads at a high school level. The boys are either above or right on task for school. We found out today that on all 3 TAKS tests that 5th graders take--he missed one question on each one. We're going to talk to his foster mom about their application for him to enter a magnet school for engineering....hopefully he was approved.
My mom saw pictures of the boys (my parents are in Milwaulkee until Tuesday) and she said that Anthony reminds her of her brother who passed a few years ago...I'm glad. I just can't get over how polite both of the boys are.
I love them more than I did during this whole mad process.

